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Ep. 2.1 He Made A Promise

Here I give you an update on my time away. Also how I came to the realization that yea God made the promise but He holds sovereignty…always.

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Peace & Blessings

Unoma

 

Flashlight Moments In the Dark Series Presents: Nigeria Lockley

If you have been folowing me for a while you would be no stranger to Nigeria Lockley or as I like to call her sissy. She is my adopted online sister and business bestie. So you know I couldn’t do a series without having her on here to give you her insight. I could talk about her all day long but let me step aside so you could read for yourself.

Unoma : Who is Nigeria Lockley?

Nigeria : Nigeria Lockley is a child of the most High God, unapologetically walking in her passion and purpose. In the past whenever I would answer questions like this I would always rattle of a bunch of titles until I realized that being my titles are not where my identity lies. My identity is in my creator.

Unoma: In 10 words or less can you create a quote that describes you and your purpose journey?

Nigeria: Pressure is preparation for promotion.

Unoma : What is the driving force in your life?

Nigeria: Christ’s commitment to me is the driving force in my life. I all that I do is to reflect the change He made in my life and the second chance, or rather multiple chances He’s given me. I’m not one of those people who discovered their gift late or accidentally. I’ve known I wanted to write since I was a very young child, but I squandered my gift and spent a number of years just smoking weed, partying, drinking, and not living up to my potential.

Unoma : How do you balance family, faith and your passion/business?

Nigeria : Faith first, ME (this is capitalized purposely) next, family, and then everything I am passionate about. Many women sacrifice themselves for some greater cause, “motherhood”, “marriage”, or “business”, but I’ve discovered that if I’m not okay nothing else I do is going to be okay.

Unoma: What was the single most devastating experience/challenge in your life and how did you overcome it?

Nigeria: At sixteen I found out that my father had moved from his super. That was probably the most devastating experience I ever had. Before that happened my father had what I would describe as a good relationship, so I thought of the reasons I should forgive him and I forgave him. I learned to be thankful for his absence. I accepted Romans 8:28 as my verse for this situation when I came to Christ–everything that I am is because of my father’s absence not in spite of. And since I’m one of the women you selected to interview for this series that means I didn’t turn out too bad.

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Unoma:  How do you build confident expectations in your dark moments?

Nigeria: At this point now I do two things–I recall the dark moments that He has guided me through and when I am still feeling discouraged I turn to my best friend who is centered in Christ and only gives me about a day to mourn whatever I’m in the dark about and then it’s time to move like I know God.

Unoma: How does your understanding of the future give you hope for the present?

Nigeria: I don’t understand the future at all, so it doesn’t inform my present. Rather, my understanding of God and His ironclad promises give the hope to get through present situations that might be distressing.

Unoma: What does it look like practically for you to “turn to the cross” in your business/ministry.

Nigeria: In my business turning to the cross is me praying before I write a book, fasting before making huge decisions, and just sitting still (I know it’s hard to believe), but after I pray I just sit and listen for a response or I pray for a vision and clarity.

Unoma: What advice would you give your younger self?

NIgeria : Serve God wholeheartedly. My younger self was into so much and constantly backsliding. Ever since I turned myself over fully to God there isn’t a door He hasn’t opened for me. Could you imagine what my would be like had I submitted sooner.

Unoma: What can we look forward to from you this year? OR What are you working on?

Nigeria: This year I’m hoping to release at least two books, Berri & Delilah, and Saving Grace and some ebooks on marketing for authors.

Here’s more about Nigeria,

Bio:

Nigeria Lockley possesses two Master’s degrees, one in English Secondary Education, which she utilizes as an educator with the New York City Department of Education. Her second Master’s degree is in Creative Writing. Born at Dawn is Nigeria’s first published novel. Nigeria serves as the Vice President of Bridges Family Services, a not-for-profit organization that assists student parents interested in pursuing a degree in higher education. She is also the deaconess and clerk for her spiritual home King of Kings and Lord of Lords, Church of God. Nigeria is a New York native who resides in Harlem with her husband and two daughters. Join her online at http://www.NigeriaLockley.com

Contact

Website: www.nigerialockley.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/authorNigeriaLockley

Instagram: www.instagram.com/NewNigeria

Twitter: www.twitter.com/NewNigeria

Next week, I will have the conclusion to this series with Stacy Hawkins Adams. You do not want to miss it.

Blessings

Unoma.

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Flashlight Moments In the Dark Series Presents: Mojisola Obazuaye

We are back with the concluding episodes to Flashlight Moments in the Dark series. Today I have the pleasure of introducing you to Mojisola Obazuaye or as she by her business name, MojiInTouch.

I first noticed Moji for her fashion style, what kept me interested was her consistency. In fact I think her picture should be next to the word consistency in the dictionary. It amazes me and I simply admire it. However I know that as creatives, there are always times when we “don’t feel like it.” So I reached out to Moji to give us a little insight. I hope you enjoy the interview as I did.

Unoma:  Who is Moji Obazuaye?

Mojisola:  I am a Fashion Buyer, Blogger, Writer & Social Entrepreneur. I am passionate about helping women look well irrespective of their shape, size, age or budget. I also help clients maximise their online presence by using social media. I am an Amazon Bestselling Author of Use What You Have: How to take your potential to fulfll purpose. I am a Wife and a Mother to 2 boys.

Unoma:  In 10 words or less can you create a quote that describes you and your purpose journey?

Moji: “To die empty”

Unoma: What is the driving force in your life?

Moji: For me, it is God first. I am lost without him.

Unoma:  How do you balance family, faith and your passion/business?

Moji: God’s promise is when I seek HIM first, every other thing is added unto me.  I draw my strength and wisdom from God. Aside the God Factor, I have learnt to map out each day, week and month so I can invest my time wisely and be productive.

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Unoma: What was the single most devastating experience/challenge in your life and how did you overcome it?

Moji: I have two. One was the untimely death of my Father. He was at the peak of his life when he died. It was God who saw me through this phase and I am grateful for his Love. Secondly, the lose of my job. Through this dark period, God gave me a new vision, hope and directed me to my purpose in life. Through this experience, God has opened so many doors and opportunities I may not have found if I didn’t go through that phase of life.

Unoma:  How do you build confident expectations in your dark moments?

Moji: One of the things I do is get on my knees….. In prayers, I see God move. Other way is that I write (journal) my thoughts, prayers, desires, challenges and victories down as a reminder and assurance of God’s promises.

Unoma: How does your understanding of the future give you hope for the present?

Moji: Even though we can not see the future, my hope is tied to Jesus Christ. All my expectations through him will never be cut short.

Unoma: What does it look like practically for you to “turn to the cross” in your business/ministry.

Moji: There is no other way for me than to turn to the cross, Our Lord Jesus Christ.

Unoma: What advice would you give your younger self?

Moji: “Live a little”

Unoma: What can we look forward to from you this year? OR What are you working on?

Moji: 1, I am getting my Masters in Fashion Buying and Management, this is on the top of my goal list this year.

2, I am also working on going on a book tour for my book, “Use What You Have”.

3, I am currently working on mentorship for young adults to be “who they want to be.”

I hope you enjoyed this time we spent with Mojisola. Here is where you can find her.

Bio:

Mojisola Obazuaye is a Stylist, Blogger, YouTube Creator + Amazon Best Selling Author of “Use What You Have.” She is a passionate believer that everyone must find and fulfill their purpose in life. Out of her passion, she created the Moj In Touch blog. She spends her time blogging at www.mojintouch.com, does PR outreach for brands to create digital contents and campaign to maximise their online presence and serves as Image “Coach” to several clients from all walks of life.

Contact

Site: http://www.mojintouch.com/

Email: mojintouch@gmail.com

YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/mojintouch

Facebook: www.facebook.com/mojintouch

Instagram |  Twitter @ Mojintouch

PS: Before you leave I wanted to remind you that In The Dark is now available. The reviews are trickling in and I’m thrilled people are liking it. To God be the glory. Don’t forget to order yours here.

Blessings

Unoma